Army Life

I'm a little unhappy with some experiences I've had so far with the army. Mainly army wives! I don't understand why there is always so much talk and complaining about people. It's really frustrating because no matter what anyone says someone always turns it around and makes you out to be a bad person. I thought I left that behind in high school and even college. It's really discouraging because I don't want to go to different events because of it. Oh well. I guess that's just life anyway